Here are some of the things to know about sex and relationships.
Married life is full of thorns. Deciding to share your daily life with someone involves a real life change. Now you are two people sharing the same path, with all the good (but also all the bad) that entails.
Anyway, we all know that sexuality is a very important point in the couple. Ideally, that shouldn’t be the most important point, but what is certain is that when sex doesn’t work, there’s something wrong.
Sexual compatibility is the harmony, agreement, understanding of characters, personalities, ideals and lifestyles in a couple, at the sexual level. If all this is missing when it comes to going to bed, there is incompatibility in the relationship.
As with everything in life, it’s about finding balance. To take advantage of every part of life as a couple because this, when you take full advantage of it, is magnificent.
To analyze if, sexually, all is well in your couple, carefully read these six signs of compatibility:
1. You share the same moments
This is about the time of day you like to enjoy sex. One of the most common incompatibilities has to do with liking having sex at different times. For example, it is possible that one member of the couple likes to have sex in the morning, while the other prefers to do so at night.
If you never talk about it or you can’t come to an agreement (ever thought about the afternoon?), each can think that it is a lack of desire for the other and that can cause long term problems.
On the other hand, if you often feel ready at the same time, it is a good sign of compatibility.
2. You know each other’s signals
As you already know, talking is very important in a relationship, but there are times when communicating without talking is even better.
If you know how to recognize the moments when your partner wants to make love, just by a few gestures (how he/she looks at you or touches your hair) and vice versa, it is undoubtedly a good sign of compatibility. sexual.
3. You have the same sexual appetite
What this means? Well, that you crave the same amount of sex.
Often, sexual problems in the couple arise because one of the two members has a fierce appetite and needs to have sex more often than the other.
If you want to have sex once a day and your partner once a week, this can cause problems. On the other hand, if both want to have sex more or less at the same frequency, it means that your partner is sexually compatible with you.
4. You have a similar idea of sex
For some people, sex is the basis of the couple. It would not be possible for them to be with someone who does not make them vibrate. Others, on the other hand, see it as just a part of the relationship, not very important.
For some it’s almost mandatory and for others it’s just a tool to have a good time and nothing else. There is no correct answer but compatibility is about having the same idea of intimacy.
5. You both feel comfortable
Forgetting the Kâma-Sûtra and being able to be yourself in bed is one of the most important signs of compatibility.
If you can have relaxed relationships with your partner, if you dare to try new things without feeling bad, if you laugh when something doesn’t go well instead of getting upset…
You are a compatible couple!
6. You have the same behaviors
Having the same sexual behaviors is vital for compatibility. It can of course happen that one of the two wants to try something and the other does not: the problem is when it happens all the time.
If one of the members of the couple is very traditional and only wants to have sex “as always” while the other is always in need of innovation and discovering new stimulation, things are probably not going to work.
On the other hand, if both want the same things, it means that they are compatible.
Remember that these signs are simply role models that can help you better discover your sexuality as a couple. But, at the end of the day, if you’re having fun with your partner, there’s no need for explanations!