6 steps to find passion in your relationship

Life as a couple can be wonderful, but the daily routine, work and children (if there are any) can wreak havoc on the side of the alcove.

What to do when your life is limited to fulfilling your duties as friends, children, neighbors, employees or parents? There seems to be no time left for a look, for a knowing smile, for a relaxed conversation, for a romantic dinner or for a night of fun.

Don’t you deserve it here? Stop doing things for others for a moment and do something for yourself: you will see that those around you will be much happier too.

Passion… this term so much used, for all purposes, how to give it a lasting and long-lasting meaning?

The passion in the couple, it is not the business of a night or a day then, presto, it is acquired! It needs to be nurtured on a daily basis so it doesn’t fall back – although, of course, you’re going to experience ups and downs in your relationship.

You can start by taking off your everyday armor and paying attention to the person next to you: look at the sides that you fell in love with back then and that he/she still definitely has, even if you don’t realize it.

Try to sit down together for ten minutes a day to have a coffee or a drink that you like and talk about something pleasant. Forget problems, family, work and talk about movies, sports, music or your next trip…

Do not skimp on hugs, smiles, kisses and anything else that can show affection and approval. Although he/she has spent years by your side, he/she needs to know that you still want him/her.

Increase the frequency of your sexual relations. Of course, it is difficult with so many daily tasks but it is a key point to recover the passion.

The Time Has Arrived: 5 Easy Steps to Finding Passion

It’s not a one-day affair, but you have to start with something: get your hands dirty. Start by arranging an appointment.

Plan a romantic, sensual and erotic date. Any occasion will be a good pretext: a birthday, Valentine’s Day…or simply the fact that today you want to do it.

An essential point of a sentimental relationship is sex. This is a great way to see if a couple is starting to take the waters or if the relationship is strong and stable.

Many see sex as just a way to get pleasure (and it’s completely legitimate) but it’s also a very important way to show love and affection for each other. Sex without the need for words builds emotional bonds and commitment. To the point:

1. Prepare the meeting place

It can be in your house, in a hotel, wherever you want. We recommend a hotel, because it will allow you to focus all your attention on yourself. It is an unfamiliar environment that will give a touch of excitement and surprise to the evening and allow you to forget the daily routine.

If this is your home, prepare a room with a pleasant temperature. It is a fundamental part of comfort. Place candles, incense (if you both like that, because not everyone is a fan) and dim the atmosphere: neither too much nor too little light.

Prepare a playlist. Background music can be a big help and if you accompany it with a sensual dance, it’s even better.

2. Surprise your partner with a romantic dinner

You don’t have to be the best cook in the world, but if you’re really bad at cooking, there are two solutions: order a good meal or go to a restaurant.

3. Use your smartphone as an aid for your appointment.

Send him hot messages to prepare him/her for the evening. Don’t be too abrupt, it could have the opposite effect: be sensual and elegant. Turn on the desire but don’t be obscene or overly explicit.

4. Dress (and undress) for the occasion

Prep your body with oils and creams. Epilate and do your fingernails and toenails.

Use sexy or erotic lingerie, forget your everyday nice underwear and put on something special.

Put your favorite perfume in strategic places on the body: behind the ears, on the wrists, on the navel, in the hollow of the back, on the ankles, in the hollow of the knees.

5. Get carried away

Once you have everything ready, relax and let yourself be carried away by the events. Do not force anything. If something goes wrong, change the scenario, it’s okay. Keep playing and enjoy. The result can only surprise you. Why not dare?

Let out your inner child, laugh, have fun and make the most of life because life is short.

As you can see, there are many ways to ignite or fan the fire in your relationship, but the most important part is within you and your partner. That’s why you have to work every day to become a little better. And above all, remember that the most important thing is you. If you are happy, everyone around you will feel better around you.